Healthy relationships begin by focusing on becoming the right person instead of trying to change someone else. Humility allows us to honor, encourage, and build others up rather than belittle them or focus only on ourselves. Real growth requires us to honestly examine our own lives and be willing to learn, unlearn, and relearn where necessary. When our hopes and expectations are centered on God instead of other people, we can love and serve others from a healthier place. Loyalty is an important foundation for lasting relationships, but our closest relationship must first be with Jesus. Make Jesus your best friend and allow your relationship with Him to shape the way you treat everyone else.